Sunday, November 7, 2010

Judge/ Be Judged

Who are we to judge one's right or wrong? If knowing that, voicing your opinion is gonna hurt someone, will you still do it? Why? Are you gonna justify yourself by saying, because true friends always tell the truth? What makes your opinion the truth then? Do you even know what was the truth?

The truth is - it's a mad world we are living in. Shit things happened. The only one who knows the truth are God and ourselves. There is no reason for us to judge others life.

If a friend tell you, he has been drunk and high for half his life; Are you gonna tell him go to hell?

If a friend tell you, he is gay; Are you gonna tell him you're sorry and make him your enemy?

If a friend tell you, he is muslim/ jews/ buddhist/ christian; Are you gonna stop praying for him or wish him well?

Most of the time we think we know what is wrong. Not only we think it is wrong, we think everyone should agree that it is wrong. Why? I think its time for everyone to stop judging one's life. Life is too short to keep an eye on everyone else's. Just follow our intuition and do what we think is right for us. Don't be afraid of getting judged because the people around us are not gonna be there to see things happen. We are in the same learning process, just different path, going through different experiences. We will eventually be in the same place.

(p/s: I might sound like an effing hypocrite by posting this because I do judge people too. I admit. I am learning not to. It's a long process.)

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